Today i want to discuss with u all about the gap between kids..
In the olden days ,i mean at our grand ma's days ,there used to be 10 kids ..as all u know .After their generation i mean in our mom's generation the count has became maximum 4.And as of speaking now nobody is eager to have more than two kids.
But what my concern is ..how much gap should be there between the two kids.?Is it good to have 6-7 years ?Is there any problem if only one kid is there?
Well,,Some body think that it is not good to have only one kid.They became so mischievous and also lonely and selfish..as the age goes by and the children who has brought up with brothers and sis will know about sharing and will have a nice mentality while mingling with others.But to my experience i have seen so many people who is only one child and with a good manners.They are friendly also .They achieved success in their lives .I don't know that every lonely child will be like this way.And also i have seen some people who brought up with bros and sis has became so arrogant and became selfish....
As i already told in the olden days the gap is also less compared to now.In those days delivery means it is so common and our grand ma's used to prepare for it just like an exam which will come every year..Isn't it?But now a days we young mothers are really worrying to have a second delivery..(most of us ..i am also one of them:-D)..is it because of our health condition?or is it because of lack of protein food?
Coming to the gap between the kids......
My elder co sis has two kids with only 1 year gap.She stays along with my MIl .When my co- sis is 2nd time pregnant my mil has taken a good care of the first one.But in my case it is not so..i mean because of my hubby's job we have to stay far.Not only me ..most of us are staying too far to the family members.Isn't it?I think this is the major cause for having much gap between kids.And also now a days it is so happening that the deliveries are becoming complicated to some people..and the doctors them selves are telling to make a gap of 5 years or more..(in my case it so happen).
I want ur opinions on the following....
- Is it ok to have a single child?
- Is it good to have a 5 years or more gap between the two kids?